So a funny thing happened to me today... my bestfriend informed me of the simple truth... I am a codependant... Well I guess I should explain... I have a tendency to lean on people I come to care about... I depend on them for certain things... opinions, attention, support, love... but I guess he is right in a sense I shouldn't do that, I should just go back to being independent... which for me is much safer in the long run anyway... I just guess I was trying to include someone in my life more than they really wanted to be included.. I wonder if that really is a bad thing?